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Data Overload on Dating Sites

The information overload caused by too much choice could have lessons for other websites.

  • Friday, July 17, 2009
  • By Andrew Schrock

Consumers can find more of what they want on the Web, but that may not always be such a good thing. New research about online dating sites shows that users presented with too many choices experience "cognitive overload" and make poorer decisions as a result. The findings could have implications for other kinds of websites, although new technologies and approaches could help address the problem, researchers suggest.

Dating sites are big business. According to a survey conducted in 2006 by the Pew Center for Internet and American Life, over 37% of all single Web users have tried them. Dating sites frequently resemble e-commerce sites such as Amazon.com; users enter search criteria such as height, appearance, and religion and are presented with a set of matches.

Pai-Lu Wu from Cheng Shiu University and Wen-Bin Chiou from the National Sun Yat-Sen University in Taiwan performed an experiment that involved giving online date-seekers varying numbers of search results to their queries on dating sites. Their study, published last month in the journal Cyberpsychology and Behavior, shows that having more search results leads to a less careful partner choice.

Chiou calls this a "double-edged sword," since people desire a wider selection, but then devote less time to evaluating each prospect. Wu and Chiou conclude that "more search options lead to less selective processing by reducing users' cognitive resources, distracting them with irrelevant information, and reducing their ability to screen out inferior options." In other words, when faced with cognitive overload, date-seekers evaluated as many matches as possible, even ones that weren't a good fit, and they were less able to distinguish a good option from a bad one.

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Michael Norton, an assistant professor at Harvard Business School, coauthored a study published in the Journal of Interactive Marketing last year that suggests that this kind of cognitive overload is common on dating sites. His study found that the average date-seeker typically spends nearly 12 hours a week searching online and emailing for a payoff of less than two hours of offline dating. Norton says that date seekers "evaluate each person only superficially, never investing the time and energy to explore whether a match might work." Having too many options raises our expectations of potential matches too high, leading to an "often fruitless search for an ideal person who may not exist." Incessant browsing for Mr. or Ms. Right may be exactly the wrong decision, Norton says.

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shmody

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  • 943 Days Ago
  • 07/17/2009

Intention of dating...

I do find this really relevant to discuss: selecting someone to date and likening it to finding a pair of shoes online.  

However, what about those who don't care to "waste time" dating and who are "intentional daters" seeking a lasting union?  Screening out potential mates based on certain characteristics saves time, money, and frustration as it ensures a relationship that may be sufficiently romantic, but is more *compatible for a lasting union*. 

Thoughts?

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isrsal

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  • 943 Days Ago
  • 07/17/2009

Re: Intention of dating...

Even for a lasting relationship, the question is how scientifically proven is the criteria. Most of these site do not publish (obviously) their algorithm. I don't know of a scientific prove that you do really save time and money.

Moreover, perhaps the criteria that increases the chances of the relationship to last cannot be easily evaluated with the limited technology we have available on the web. One example that the article mentions is Humor.

I see the advantage of dating sites in the fact that you get a wider selection of people that you won't have access to otherwise. According to this article, this might be actually a disadvantage.

Also, my gut feeling is that there might be different criteria for different periods of a relationship (i.e. matching someone for the first month of the relationship doesn't necessarily correlate to matching for first five years of the relationship).

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FernandoArdenghi

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  • 942 Days Ago
  • 07/18/2009

Online Dating is evolving

• Online daters always opt for sameness (when they search) more often than chance would predict.
• Homophily dominates human attraction but what is important in attracting people to one another may not be important in making couples happy.


Online Dating had evolved:
from "Browsing/Searching Options" to "Matching based on Self-Reported Data"
and now Online Dating is evolving
from "Matching based on Self-Reported Data" to "Compatibility Matching Algorithms".
because,
Latest Research in Theories of Romantic Relationships Development outlines: compatibility is all about a high level on personality similarity between prospective mates for long term mating with commitment.



Regards,

Fernando Ardenghi.
Buenos Aires.
Argentina.
ardenghifer@gmail.com

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Cheapo1

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  • 871 Days Ago
  • 09/27/2009

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Even though you make a valid point I am afraid that I must disagree. It not sensory overload but choice overload kind of like going into a Baskin Robbins ice cream store.

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